Hey everyone,
I hope you’re all doing well. I just wanted to share something that’s been weighing on my heart lately. I’ve recently experienced my 5th failed FET (frozen embryo transfer), and it’s been really tough. The rollercoaster of emotions that come with each failed attempt is nothing short of exhausting.
I’m feeling a mix of frustration, disappointment, and sadness. It’s hard not to question if I’m doing something wrong or if there’s something more I could have done. This journey to parenthood has been much more challenging than I ever imagined.
If anyone else has gone through multiple failed FETs, I would love to hear your experiences and
I have no solutions to offer other than to say that I am in a similar situation. I just had my fourth failed euploid transfer and my doctor believes it’s the embryos, not me. I have two euploids left and am deciding between a mock cycle and testing or another egg retrieval. I want more than one child, so another retrieval is likely. I’m tired of feeling like I’m wasting time. Have you done ERA/Alice/Emma testing? Let me know if you need support!
Have you been following Tarrah on TikTok? She faced multiple implantation failures and a chemical pregnancy before successfully conceiving. If you’re experiencing similar struggles, it might be worth considering a Reproductive Immunology consultation before attempting more embryo transfers.
You did a fantastic job with your ERs! It’s amazing that you still have 6 PGT-A embryos remaining even after using 5.