Navigating Intimacy Post-Retrieval: Experiences and Advice

Hi everyone, I recently had my egg retrieval and I’m wondering about getting intimate again. Is it safe to have sex just 5 days post-retrieval? Would love to hear your experiences and any insights or advice you may have on this topic. Thanks in advance!

I was informed that there should be no sexual activity for two weeks following the egg retrieval procedure.

I’m sorry you had to go through that. My clinic recommends avoiding sex until my period arrives and avoiding tampons for post-procedure spotting. I hope you find relief soon.

Apologies, but having sex after my ER procedure would be too painful. I experienced intense cramping and discomfort afterward, needing to rest and use a heat pad. I recommend using a heat pad, taking Tylenol, and staying hydrated. If symptoms persist after a day or two, it might be best to seek medical attention.

We had intercourse for the first time 8 days after egg retrieval, which was 3 days after the transfer. I can’t recall the exact advice from our clinic, but I believe we were told to wait a week. Despite feeling great, I experienced a strong cramp afterwards, which I’ve been experiencing twinges and cramps since the transfer. Bloating is a common symptom during this process, so if that’s the only symptom you have, there is no need to worry. If you experience worsening pain, contact your clinic.

Yes, we attempted intercourse a week later but had to stop after only 30 seconds due to the pain. The advice about abstaining from sex is serious – I waited until my period started, following my clinic’s recommendation. This time, I experienced no bloating but the pain was intense.

Definitely not lollll, wait two weeks or until after your period begins.

Wow, you have actual wounds in your vagina from the ER! I wouldn’t even suggest using tampons. Poor thing.

I was advised to abstain from sex during the rest of my cycle following my egg retrieval. I can resume after I have completed my first period post-retrieval.

We had intercourse 5 days later and everything seemed fine. However, my response was not very strong as only 10 eggs were retrieved.