I never imagined the emotional toll a failed FET could take until I experienced it firsthand. The disappointment, the sadness, the sense of loss - it’s all consuming. I had put so much hope and faith into this cycle, only to have it end in heartbreak. Has anyone else been through a similar situation? How did you cope with the aftermath of a failed FET? Sharing my experience here, hoping to find solace in others who understand this unique pain.
I am deeply sorry, as I too received bad news today. The pain and heartache are indescribable, and it’s frustrating when people don’t quite understand the process. My husband’s simple questions only make me feel more detached and lonely. But we must keep pushing forward. Sending love and hugs your way. 
My heart truly aches for you. We recently experienced a failed FET as well, and it’s difficult for others to truly comprehend the pain unless they’ve gone through it themselves. The loss of hope is sudden and unfair. One thing that somewhat brought me comfort was hearing from a friend who went through multiple rounds of IVF and now has a baby. She said that when you finally hold your baby, everything will fall into place. It may feel far off right now, but it made sense to me. Sending you a virtual hug 
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I underwent my first and second FET consecutively earlier this year, both resulting in failure. It was a tough blow for us, especially after being told our second cycle was perfect. No amount of preparation can lessen the shock and heartache. Just know that you’re not alone, sending you virtual hugs and support.
I understand what you’re going through, as I also recently experienced my second failed FET. It’s a difficult situation, and sometimes even the most supportive partners may not fully grasp the depth of our pain. In addition to the emotional loss, dealing with the hormonal changes and physical changes can be overwhelming. But remember, you are resilient and things will improve. Try to do something enjoyable, indulge in some comfort food, and watch some romantic comedies to lift your spirits. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you the best of luck on your journey to parenthood! Virtual hugs and baby dust coming your way.
I apologize that you are feeling lonely, but please know that we are here to support you as much as we can. It can be isolating going through this. Is there a close friend or family member you can confide in? I haven’t told my parents as they may not handle it well, but my girlfriends have been my rock. Feel free to message me if you need to talk.
I just experienced my 4th failed transfer. My beta test is on Wednesday but it’s still a negative result. I’m really sorry about this. I spent the whole weekend crying. I hope you are allowing yourself the time and support you need. Sending big hugs to you, my friend.
We are standing by you, OP. I experienced a setback in February and I have a transfer scheduled for May 13th that I am not looking forward to. Allow yourself to experience all your emotions, they are all valid. Feel free to reach out if you need to vent.
I embrace you during this difficult time of sorrow and anger. There’s no need to dwell on what comes next, just allow yourself to grieve.
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I’m sorry you’re in pain. I recently experienced a failed FET and found some relief in talking to loved ones after feeling overwhelmed with rage. It’s okay to feel this way and give yourself grace. Things will improve. Feel free to reach out to me if you need someone to talk to.
I empathize with your situation and can relate as I had 3 failed FET in 2018. I recently had a fresh transfer and my BETA is tomorrow, but I am expecting a negative result. Despite doing everything right, like bed rest and minimal movement, I am still facing disappointment. I have been experiencing a slight cough and sinus issues post-transfer, which worries me about the outcome. However, I am determined to keep trying and will continue my life as usual before the next transfer. I plan to work, exercise, enjoy leisure activities, and trust in a higher power for guidance. [37F]
My sincere condolences, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.