Hey everyone,
I’m feeling really down and I just need to get this off my chest. I recently experienced something that’s really taking a toll on me emotionally. It’s like a constant weight on my heart, making it difficult to focus and find joy in anything.
I know it’s important to talk about these things instead of keeping them bottled up inside, so I thought I’d share here. Has anyone else been through something similar? How do you cope with a heavy heart? Any advice or support would mean a lot right now. Thank you in advance.
It’s natural to feel happy for her while feeling heartbroken for yourself. Infertility is a cruel and challenging journey that can make you feel like your world has come to a halt, while everyone else keeps moving forward. There are no words to adequately express the pain it brings, but I am sorry for what you are going through. I hope that you will find your happy ending soon. Stay strong and take each day as it comes.
It’s completely normal to feel the way you do. I see many people around me having multiple kids effortlessly, and I am the only one I know besides a distant friend who struggles with infertility. I have been on a long journey with IVF, and I am now at a point where I am finished with it. However, being in your mid-30s, you have every reason to be optimistic about this upcoming transfer. If you have no lining issues, your chances of success are much higher. Try to imagine a successful outcome, relax, and take care of yourself. It’s likely to happen. 
I can truly relate to this situation. My niece recently had a baby, and I am overjoyed for them. However, it’s hard for me because I have experienced a missed miscarriage and failed transfer, leaving me with empty arms. Despite my love for my niece, I can’t help but feel frustrated and saddened by the unfairness of it all.
It’s completely normal to feel the way you do. Have faith that this IVF session will be successful. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you the best of luck with your upcoming transfer 
I’m so sorry, I completely understand.
I understand that this is all part of your IVF journey, with some days feeling crushing and others like big wins. Have you thought about trying acupuncture to assist with your FET? Sending wishes for healthy and sticky embryos. 
Right now, it would be helpful to keep some distance and avoid involving the rest of the family in this drama.
It is acceptable to feel joy for her and deep sadness for yourself. Dealing with infertility is incredibly unjust and can make you feel like the world has come to a halt, while everyone else continues to progress. There are no words to truly express this struggle. I am sorry, and I sincerely hope that you find your own happy ending someday. Stay resilient and tackle each day as it comes.
It’s totally normal to feel the way you do. I’m surrounded by people having kids effortlessly, while I struggle with infertility. After years of IVF, I’m finally at a point where I’m done with it. You, in your mid-30s, have every reason to be hopeful about your upcoming transfer. If there are no lining issues, your chances of success are high. Visualize it working, relax, and take care of yourself - it’s likely to happen.
I understand completely. My niece had her baby 4 days ago and I’m so happy for them both. Despite my love for them, it hurts to see her start a family when I’ve experienced a missed miscarriage and failed transfer, leaving me with empty arms. It’s difficult to accept the unfairness of the situation, especially considering we were due around the same time.
It’s completely normal to feel the way you do, and don’t worry - this IVF session will be successful. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you the best in your upcoming transfer, sending my love and understanding your situation.
I understand that this is all a part of your IVF journey, with some days feeling overwhelming and others uplifting. Have you thought about trying acupuncture to aid with your FET? Sending wishes for healthy and sticky embryos 
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Utilize distance as a coping mechanism and refrain from involving the rest of the family in the drama.