Hey everyone, I wanted to share something personal that’s been on my mind lately. As someone who has gone through IVF (fertility treatment), I’ve come to realize that the conversation around in vitro fertilization often focuses solely on infertility. While infertility is an important reason people pursue IVF, it’s essential to remember that there are many other valid reasons too.
Some people use IVF due to genetic conditions, preserving fertility before medical treatments, or even when surrogacy is involved. Let’s not limit the discussion surrounding IVF to just infertility. By broadening our understanding, we can support and empathize with those who may be exploring IVF for reasons beyond
This genetic mutation is not something we want to pass down!
My wife and I took it a step further with reciprocal IVF, which has been an incredible experience. I am now carrying my wife’s child with the help of our chosen donor from a catalogue. 
Absolutely! It’s important to consider preservation for individuals with other health conditions, as well as for PGT-M when specific genes are carried by you and/or your partner. There are various reasons to consider egg freezing.
This serves as a valuable reminder to the community. As an individual battling infertility, it’s common to assume that others are in the same boat. While I may not fully endorse yesterday’s post, I believe introducing different daily or weekly threads in this subreddit would be beneficial. Personally, I find it daunting to create a new thread to ask a question and would prefer to do so in a designated daily or weekly thread. It would also reduce the repetition of questions and provide a platform for people to find answers to similar queries.
This subreddit tends to feature negative posts and focus on the worst possible outcomes. I believe that if discussions about infertility are allowed, then success stories should be shared respectfully as well. Success stories do not diminish the experiences of those still struggling. There is no limit to the number of pregnancies that can happen. It is important to allow a space for those who have had success and are cautiously optimistic after IVF. Pregnancy after infertility comes with its own emotional challenges that should not be dismissed due to jealousy. I suggest that once people have graduated from their reproductive endocrinologist, they should share their updates in a different forum, while beta tests and early ultrasounds are still allowed. It is not fair to blame pregnant individuals for the struggles of those dealing with infertility, as both groups can be hurtful.
I needed to know if something was wrong with me, especially after experiencing the unexpected passing of a child who did not have cancer, while also having a child currently battling the disease.
Yes, I am a cisgender woman who is looking forward to potentially carrying the baby of my transgender female partner in the future. We saved sperm before her transition, and IVF is a fantastic option for us to have a biological child without interrupting her hormone replacement therapy. 
My husband and I are currently undergoing IVF. About 6 years ago, he was diagnosed with colon cancer and was told that there was a high likelihood of him becoming infertile after his radiation treatments. He made the decision to freeze his sperm for future use. I came into the picture a year later and we decided on when to start our family planning. We are opting for both PGT-A and PGT-M testing, particularly because his colon cancer is hereditary. He had a 10-15% chance of survival and we are hopeful that these genetic tests will help prevent our future children from experiencing the same health challenges.
The reason for going through this process was due to being a same-sex couple, with one partner wanting to carry using the other’s eggs. While acknowledging that it may be slightly different, it was not an easy journey and likely challenging for most individuals, regardless of their reasons. Despite numerous cycles, a doctor mentioned that it would have been simpler to conceive naturally each month. IVF comes with external factors that can lead to failure, physical invasiveness, lack of intimacy, and high costs, making it a universal struggle for all undergoing the process. Even as a supposedly fertile young couple, IVF was difficult and costly. Therefore, I argue that it may not be suitable for everyone due to its prohibitive costs.
As a surrogate, I find this post fascinating because it sheds light on various reasons for using IVF. While I knew some reasons beforehand, I have been surprised by others. I understand that not everyone in this group is struggling with infertility, so I am cautious when commenting or posting to respect the diverse experiences present.
I am a single lady, IVF process done and I have two embryos waiting for me when I’m ready. Well, one at a time, but you get the idea 
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My husband’s dream was for us to have children using his eggs, so we underwent RIVF to make that dream a reality! 
We underwent multiple losses, with 2/3 being attributed to chromosome abnormalities. Without translocations, it was simply unfortunate luck. IVF enabled us to select PGS tested embryos.
It’s hard for me to fathom a heterosexual couple intentionally choosing to undergo IVF as their preferred method of conception.
People who are in a relationship with someone who has had a vasectomy may choose to undergo either a reversal procedure or IVF.
The inclusive nature of a group can be tarnished when members make harsh judgments about reproductive choices, driving others away. I am personally undergoing IVF without an infertility diagnosis, for my own reasons. The gatekeeping within the community can be discouraging, but ultimately it’s nobody’s business why I choose to pursue this path. Negative comments about reproductive choices can be harmful, so it’s best to refrain from saying anything at all if it isn’t positive.
Many younger women are realizing the importance of educating themselves about reproductive issues, especially when considering freezing eggs as a preventative measure. This knowledge gap has led them to seek information on platforms like this one.
I wish I could just remain in this warm and cozy place instead of facing the scary outside world.
I am a single mother who underwent IVF with donor sperm and my eggs, with PGT testing. Tomorrow, I am having a beta test for my first FET.
Due to health issues, I require IVF. I had a large cyst in one ovary and tube in 2016 and lost my remaining tube in an ectopic pregnancy in 2021. I also did IUI and one round of IVF with my ex-husband, which resulted in one failed transfer and the need to discard 2 untested embryos due to our divorce agreement.
I feel like I have experienced every aspect of fertility struggles, like a “fertility sampler platter”.
I appreciate the diversity of experiences in this community. A friend of mine is starting IVF with donor eggs and her husband soon. In my choice mom group, every member has a unique story.
I may not attend the choice mom meeting this weekend if my beta results are negative. However, I enjoy meeting with them when I am in a positive state. It helps me stay motivated on this journey.
I find it fascinating to learn about the various paths people take on their fertility journey, and I am grateful for the diversity of experiences shared here.
We opted for IVF because I had tubal ligation at 20 while in an abusive relationship.