I just wanted to share that I am feeling absolutely physically exhausted. The past few days have been a whirlwind of work, personal commitments, and unexpected challenges that have left me drained. It’s one of those times where even getting out of bed feels like a monumental task. I know I’m not alone in feeling this way, so how do you cope when you’re feeling completely spent? Share your tips and tricks to recharge and rejuvenate!
My wife underwent her first egg retrieval in February and I had my first transfer shortly after with two 4AA embryos. Sadly, we received negative results for both transfers, making the emotional rollercoaster even more intense. The hope, fear, and constant what ifs can be overwhelming, especially when faced with the financial costs and no guarantees. Our doctor has recommended surgery to remove a fibroid that may be impacting our chances, a reality that has left me feeling unprepared for potential fertility issues on top of our same-sex struggles. It’s exhausting, both physically and emotionally, and I admire those who persevere through years of this journey. Despite my wife’s support, I can’t help but feel like I’m letting our team down. This process is far from fun, sexy, or romantic as many assume, but rather draining, disheartening, and costly. I empathize with your situation and wish everyone in this community success in achieving their dreams.
I was telling my husband recently that I really want my body back, haha. My first FET is on April 30th and it feels like I’ve been on hormones constantly since my last retrieval in January. I’m dreading the hormones for the FET which I might begin on Friday.
I took a break between my fresh transfer and first frozen one, starting medication for the latter. The first cycle was exhausting emotionally, mentally, and physically for me and those around me. I initially didn’t like the break, wanting to try again sooner, but now I am grateful for the emotional healing it provided. Despite the upcoming cycle, I am more prepared for what lies ahead. The emotional exhaustion took a toll on me physically, but I am slowly recovering.
Trigger Warning: Lifestyle Changes
Last week, I underwent my first egg retrieval while also dealing with Covid for the first time. I have never been so exhausted in my life as I am now. I can only imagine what you must be going through with months of hormonal changes and disappointment. Honestly, I expressed to my partner last night that I am unsure if I can continue knowing that the ultimate ‘reward’ of getting pregnant is a marathon of exhaustion followed by months of serious sleep deprivation. Giving birth does bring about different hormonal changes, but it can be overwhelming trying to care for yourself and someone else. It is worth it, but far from easy!