Trigger Warning: Success. While working at a museum, my department and team have been aware of my journey with IUI/IVF since 2021. I have only taken time off for certain procedures and appointments, and have been working remotely when necessary. As I near the end of my first trimester, I am feeling much more physically exhausted and have been thinking about taking more days off.
My spouse and I constantly reminded ourselves that working from home was truly a blessing for us. It’s hard to imagine how we would have managed otherwise.
I find solace in working as it allows me to escape from the stresses of IVF. My work schedule is quite flexible, with 80% of my work being done from home. Staying busy helps me cope, but I understand that a demanding workload can be challenging. Have you considered speaking to your manager for support and possibly taking time off when needed?
Initially, I was on garden leave, then took time off from work, worked a short contract, and went through interviews - each representing a different cycle. I mostly worked from home, but also did IVF abroad. I was fortunate to have smooth recovery from stims and egg retrieval. It’s nice to have work as a distraction, but consider limiting your hours leading up to the egg retrieval. Thinking about how to manage work hours in the US can be more challenging due to the unpredictability of the process. Discussing the monitoring schedule with your clinic is important.
I promise it will work out well for you! Breaks are crucial, especially during busy times like cycling through pickups. And the break proved to be successful when I returned.
I completed my first two rounds of treatment, taking breaks for scans and retrieval. The first round had minimal side effects, but the second round was challenging due to different medications causing more severe side effects while at work. For my current and final round, I had accumulated plenty of holidays and long service leave, allowing me to take 8 weeks off to relax without worrying about managing side effects or work obligations during the embryo update appointments. Although it may inconvenience others when I have to book last-minute time off for scans and retrieval, I had the flexibility to do so.
I enjoy reading the comments! Last week, I seriously considered quitting my job due to the stress and upcoming IVF process. The work environment is chaotic and demanding, though I have a flexible schedule. I have decided to take a few days off around the ER procedure. It’s interesting how some find work to be a good distraction, but for me, it’s quite the opposite. I struggle to focus on my personal life during busy times.
I was able to go to my clinic for labs at 6 am before work, only took 15 minutes. Everyone’s experience is different but I felt completely fine after the ER. I recommend taking the day after off as well. Do you have unlimited time off? It’s important to save those for when you really need it.
IVF typically requires more time than expected and it may not be feasible for many to take time off. However, I only took off the days of my retrievals and FETs, as I have DOR. The recovery after ER was generally not difficult for me. Additionally, the downtime between procedures can be mentally challenging for most, as the mental aspect of IVF is often tougher than the physical aspect.
I am currently working on it and at the stage of my first cycle, on day 11 of stimulation for egg retrieval.
I provide private music lessons and must be highly emotionally available for my students. I am only undergoing IVF during my summer break. I have heard stories of people losing jobs due to hormonal side effects or overworking during treatment. I am personally sensitive to hormones, as birth control pills caused severe crying fits. Last summer, my partner and I took a vacation during an egg retrieval, resulting in 24 eggs at the age of 40. It is essential to take time off for IVF, and it is unfair that most do not receive medical leave for this treatment.
Currently in the initial IVF stages getting all the necessary tests done, with hopes of starting the process next month. I’m managing a full-time job with varying schedules, but my manager is supportive and willing to accommodate my needs, such as leaving early today for an HSG appointment.
I need a job to remind myself that there is value beyond my reproductive abilities. I wish this were a joke.
I completed all three egg retrievals over the course of a year while working in a school and it didn’t impact my work at all.
I also work in mental health and my company was understanding but couldn’t provide leave. If possible, prioritize your well-being and don’t feel guilty about it. Feel free to message me if you need encouragement to prioritize self-care. Good luck!
I recently took some time for self-care, focusing on resting, sleeping, and my overall health. Managing my hormones can be challenging.
I am currently undergoing IVF treatment and also manage a business. I am grateful for having control over my schedule during this intense time. I recently took a week off for recovery after my egg retrieval and have been working part-time due to frequent clinic visits. If possible, I recommend taking time off to prioritize your health.