I waited for my beta results for both transfers because the numbers are important. The first time, my numbers were low and it resulted in a chemical pregnancy. However, with the second transfer, my numbers were much higher and I am now 8 weeks pregnant.
I delayed checking my test results because I knew I’d find it hard to stay motivated to keep taking my medication if they were negative. Waiting was the only time I could hold onto some hope amidst the stress of the IVF cycle. I was relieved to ignore it for a bit while waiting, before finally checking online results from my clinic.
I have undergone 4 FETs and only one resulted in a positive outcome. I tested before 2 out of the 4 transfers. The first time, I tested the day before my beta because I didn’t want to receive the results in front of others while on vacation. The following transfer, I waited and it was extremely difficult as it consumed my every thought. The third transfer also involved waiting for results on beta day, which was a nightmare due to lab delays. For the fourth transfer, I tested the day before my beta and was shocked to see a positive result. I hope your first FET is successful, but if not, you will learn from the experience. Good luck with your journey!
I raised my hand and it was extremely painful.
I passed my first test and I am confident I will pass my second as well. I understand that a test result can be inaccurate so I won’t panic unless there is a legitimate reason.
I chose not to test before my beta for any of my three transfers due to multiple reasons. I didn’t want to risk seeing a negative result unnecessarily, and I knew that testing would only cause me additional stress and over analysis. Waiting for my beta allowed me to remain hopeful and reduce overthinking. I have no regrets about my decision and did it successfully three times!
I have been in both situations before haha. I began testing at 3dpt for my first 2 transfers, but for my latest one, I decided to wait until beta and I actually found that I preferred it that way!
I have never tried with a FET before and have experienced 2 successes and 1 failure. Pregnancy tests are costly and can cause unnecessary anxiety. During the Two Week Wait, it’s important to minimize stress to create a safe environment for the embryo to grow. I used this time to relax, reflect, and distract myself with TV shows. Even though it’s scary and doubts arise, it’s best to stay calm for better chances of success.
My clinic doesn’t do the first beta test until 12 days after the transfer, which is equivalent to 17dpo. I don’t want to wait anxiously for 12 days when I could have a better sense of the outcome by day 7. Just do whatever makes you feel more at ease!
I refrained from testing until my beta because my husband and I wanted to ensure accurate results. We debated whether I should take a test before my bloodwork, but ultimately decided against it to avoid potential disappointment from testing too soon. When the clinic called with my results, I waited to listen to the voicemail with my husband, as we wanted to find out together whether it was successful. The most difficult part was resisting the urge to peek and discover the answer before we were ready.
I resisted giving in! It helped me maintain hope for a longer period, which was much needed.
I had my first beta draw at 10dpt at the clinic. To prepare myself, I took a home test at 9dpt. I believe testing sooner wouldn’t have made a difference, so I’m relieved I waited.
I waited until the day of the beta test to take it. Testing on day 9 post-transfer helped me mentally as I preferred not to know the results in advance.
I didn’t believe it until I took positive at-home tests, only to discover it was a chemical pregnancy. The numbers speak volumes.
My clinic doesn’t test until 13/14 days past transfer, which is tough for me. I can’t bring myself to test at home for some reason, so I haven’t tested after either transfer. I understand the desire to know and have a sense of control, but emotionally I couldn’t handle it. I needed to be told my results by someone else; I couldn’t bring myself to check my portal when the results were released automatically.
The two-week wait is typically associated with IUIs, not FETs. With a FET, you can expect to see conclusive results by day 9 post-transfer, equivalent to two weeks post IUI, due to the embryo being five days older at the time of transfer.
I chose not to test at home and instead waited for my clinic to schedule a blood test. I knew testing at home would have caused me more stress as I would have obsessed and doubted the results. I felt more relaxed waiting for the beta. I kept myself busy with fun and relaxing activities during this time, such as going on dates with my husband, getting a massage, visiting a head spa, talking to close friends, and taking baths. Remember to be good and kind to yourself, no matter what you decide.
I tested 8 days post 5-day transfer and had my beta on day 10 because my clinic doesn’t draw on Sundays. After experiencing a chemical pregnancy last time, I’m considering testing earlier this time to have more insight on the progression of a potential positive line. I have a board report on the day of my beta, so I’d prefer to be prepared and have a better idea of what to expect instead of waiting for the call. Let’s see how it goes.
I waited for my beta test to find out about the first transfer and then tested at home before the second transfer.
I did, and I am thankful for it!